बीबीसीका पत्रकारबाट पीडित फिलिपिन्सकी युवतिको अतिरिक्त बयान

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- China Cabrido

1. That I, Charina Cabrido, a Filipino (Philippines) citizen living in Nepal met Surendra Phuyal, Nepali, in March 2010. We became a couple and have been living together since June 2010in Khursanitar, Lazimpat, Nepal. Mr. Phuyal said that he was not married and we continued with our relationship. I was pregnant with him in November 2011 when I found that he lied to me and that he was already married in 2008. Mr. Phuyal refused to take responsibility of our baby and asked me to abort it or take it to the orphanage in Dec 2011. From Dec 2011, Mr. Phuyalstarted threatening me by sending me chats, SMSasking me to stay away from him and his family until I was psychological depressed.

2. I filed complaints in court against Mr. Phuyalfor domestic violence, divorce and alimony in Nepal in March 2012 since I lost my baby due to emotional and psychological abuses from Mr. Phuyal. On April 2012, Kathmandu Court issued an interim protection to me to protect me from harassments and threats from Surendra Phuyal.

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3. In July 2012, Mr. SurendraPhuyal violated the interim protection and went to my place of living in Lazimpat, Nepal to drop a bag with his dirty briefinside the bag to sexually harass me. My aama, who was 82 years old, received the bag from the gate from Surendra. After dropping the bag, he sent me sexual SMS and purposely insulted and tormented me by reminding me of the traumatic sexual experience I had with him. After delivering his stained brief at my apartment, he sent me sexual message saying” we do not have happy ending but I had the best fuck ever with you”. He said he wants to have sex with me badly. He called me “bakhri” a sexual female goat and said I was a racist. He threatened me saying “You will pay the price!” I cried endlessly for days and this has tremendously disturbed my sleep and left me very traumatized. When we were together, Mr. SurendraPhuyal was sexually abusive to me and was using many women at the same time even when he was married.On other days, he sleeps with other women whom he meets in bars after work (he ends his work from BBC Nepali at 9:30 pm), offers beer to these women and he takes women to his car and have sex with them inside his car. People who know Surendra call him bokka, which means a very sexual person.

4. Mr. Phuyal asked me a payment of 2 thousand USD and then increased it to 5 thousand USD for the services that he rendered to me as my husband during the 1 and ½ years that we were together. He threatened me that I need to pay him this amount otherwise he will destroy my image globally, ruin my career and report me to the police. I filed a complaint at Tourist Police on sexual harassment against Mr. Phuyal explaining the details of the event and showing the proofs of harassment to the police investigator.

5. On July 16, 2012, Mr. Phuyal again violated the interim protection by going to my place of work in New Baneshwor and forcibly snatch/steal from me the evidence of his stained underwear. We had a disagreement and I tried to grab from him the stained underwear (evidence) and he threw it outside my office window from the second floor to get rid of the evidence. Continuously threatened up to this day, Mr. SurendraPhuyal is sending me threats in SMS causing me emotional stress, humiliation, depression, and scaring me to drop my court cases.